There is much to be done here at Victory! Andy Morrison does a fantastic job in taking care of the maintenance and upkeep of our buildings and grounds and we can’t keep Mark Massey away from his tools. Still, we find ourselves with unfinished projects or ones we haven’t even started. Our task list is the proverbial bottomless well!
We are excited to have Bay City Baptist join us this weekend for another work day! It is always a blessing to have these sweet people with us. We heavily rely upon churches and individuals that will volunteer their time and talent to help accomplish important projects. Below is a list of projects for which we are actively looking for help:
HVAC (install heaters for several different areas)
Vehicle and Heavy Equipment Mechanic (electrical and brake repair for old payloader)
Burning/Mulching/Cleaning up in Logged Areas of Forest
Remodel of Main Shop (exterior siding, interior walls and ceiling, and shelving)
Work for Licensed Electrician
If you are interested in coming up and serving for a day, please contact Ben Barrick at firstname.lastname@example.org. If you have a particular trade skill or hobby, let us know. Several of our projects need an experienced hand. We also have several projects that just need a faithful worker, skilled or not.
It is always a difficult thing to send our students back home for two weeks for Christmas break. We know that, in many ways, they simply are not yet ready to submit to the authority of the parents. If they were, there would be no need for them to return for the spring semester.
Although the students may not be ready to return to their normal life at Christmas, we do desire to see growth in key areas of their life. One of these goals is to see a change in their communication. Each student has a unique personality, so this change will be different in every case. We encourage the parents to evaluate transparency, honesty, and respect in their son’s communication. Although manifested in various ways, these are spiritual fruit that should be evident in the life of every growing Christian. However, not all of our students are professing believers; our approach with these students is to always go back to the gospel. Unsaved individuals can pragmatically find ways to co-exist with conflict for selfish reasons, but they will ultimately fail. True heart change only happens through the power of Christ.
It is encouraging to hear reports from the parents during break. Not all of these reports are positive, but they reveal the parent’s heart. We are broken people working to encourage broken people. These parents make mistakes and watch the relational consequences happen in real-time. They have their moments of pure ecstasy, as they watch their children walk in truth. Such is the roller-coaster of family life! By the grace of God, these families are seeing change. They are having open conversations about life, theology, the gospel, and family. In many ways, the battle for their son's heart is just beginning. Once a Christian starts to show an interest in the things of God and works to remedy broken relationships, Satan gets busy. Be in prayer for these families, as they continue to seek growth and change to the glory of God!
Last month, we had 63 people gathered together in our Lodge to celebrate Thanksgiving. We ate too much, played hard on the football field, laughed at Charlie Brown’s excuse of a Christmas tree, and cheered on Josh B.’s grandma as she bench-pressed 45 lbs! Needless to say, there is much fun to be had when you cram that many people into one building.
Although we love the festivities, the focus quickly transitions on Friday morning. The two days after Thanksgiving are spent in general sessions and personal family counseling. What a blessing it is to be a part of what God is doing in the lives of each of these families! The dynamics of every parent gathering is different. Not only do you have personality differences, but you also have differing levels of commitment and buy-in. God was working in our midst this Thanksgiving, as we answered many great questions from the parents. The questions that these families were asking were coming from a thirst and hunger for Biblical answers. This fostered an environment of growth that motivated each family to be transparent in their needs. Each family desired to take the truths given in the sessions and work to implement them into their homes.
A truth that God impresses on my heart every time I counsel families is that I am a broken person. I may be a counselor, but that just means that I am a professionally broken person. These counseling sessions challenge Aaron and I to be the parents that we need to be. We have the same struggles; we are just in a different place of our journey as parents. We need these truths as much as the families with whom we work. Continue to pray for the young men, their families, and for us as we all seek to be conformed to the image of God’s Son.
It is amazing to see how God has provided for our needs this past year! Some years, God sees fit to provide only the bare necessities. Other years, He allows us to pursue the advancement of our property and program to better equip us to minister to our students and campers.
We had some big goals and subsequent prayer requests for 2017. We wanted to raise $2,000 to replace the roof on our workshop. God provided the money and the work team from Wausau Bible Church to accomplish this project! God also allowed us to raise $40,000 to renovate our school ball field and improve our roads! While those two things were very important to the improvement and stewardship of our physical property, we are probably most excited about the addition of a $15,000 mountain bike fleet to our outdoor programs! Not only did God provide the funds for all of these projects, but each one also represents an individual, family, church, or company that sacrificially gave of their time, effort, and money. We are so thankful for the investment that they have poured into our ministry with these young men!
Outside of the normal needs of meeting budget and sponsoring financially struggling families, we also have some capital improvement goals for 2018 that, if God permits, we would like to see come to fruition.
You may have noticed that we have completely changed the way we send out our Victory Update emails. Over the last few years, we have become burdened that we have been doing a poor job at keeping up with our donors and prayer warriors. At the end of September, we took a huge step and purchased a large and comprehensive donor management system. This has given us the ability to keep all of our supporters’ contact information together in one place, which enables us to handle mass mailings and email correspondence with greater ease. It also has given us a platform with which to create designed emails, sign up forms, and other online communications.
Like any new tool, it has taken us some time to learn the program and begin to use it. We have already sent out a couple of designed Victory Updates and have used it frequently in our cultivation of intern leads. It also now gives us the ability to take online donations and records it in our database, which generates your tax-deductible receipts that will be emailed to you. If you ever wish to fill out an online sign-up form or send in a donation on a page that has www.salsalabs.org in the URL, don’t worry. It is completely secure; it is the name of our new donor management system.
In our switch to using this donor management software, it is important that we update our contact information for you! We want to make sure our letters, cards, and emails reach you. Please take time to follow this link or QR Code to update your information! https://vfm.salsalabs.org/updatecontactinfo
We have also begun to really hone our social media communications as well. This not only is another avenue to keep you informed, but it is also a great tool to share our vision and purpose with people that don’t receive our emails. Every time that a picture or post is liked or shared, a new group of individuals are now connected to our Facebook page. More and more of our students and campers are coming from internet searches. You can really help advance our cause by being faithful to like and share things that we post to Facebook and Instagram! If you don’t follow us online, we would love to have you join our online community at www.facebook.com/VictoryFamilyMinistries.
It is always a struggle for us to find the interns we need to run Victory Academy every year. The resident assistant position is a vital position, but it is temporary. Most interns only stay on as an RA for one school year and as a counselor for the following summer. Some choose to stay longer, but it is our desire to see them go back and finish their degrees, jump into a full-time ministry position, or serve God at a local church. This puts us in a constant need for interns. We are looking at some options to expand our capacity of eight students to a capacity of twelve. To do this, we will need to have five interns contracted and ready to serve at the beginning of the year. To make this a reality, we have made strides in the organization of our internship program and how we present it to potential interns. This work is far from finished, but we are pleased with the progress. Some of the strides involve new brochures, web pages, Facebook ads, videos, and carefully crafted informational emails. We are excited to get connected with those whom God is preparing to serve in this unique way. We are looking for a special kind of guy. Our internship program is very difficult at times and spiritually taxing. We like to say it is “life concentrate” – bottling five years of experience into one! However, the eternal rewards of a wayward teen making godly decisions far outweigh any difficulty an intern may face.
We are now offering a couple of internship tracks with various concentrations. We want to do everything we can to satisfy any internship or time-restraint requirement that our potential interns may have. It is our hope that the new structuring will allow for more men to serve at Victory. We appreciate your prayers in this endeavor. If you would like to learn more, visit our internship page at www.vafb.org/internship.
Director of Victory Family Ministries.
“Volunteers make the non-profit world go ‘round,” and they make great things possible here at Victory. Every capital improvement project is made possible, in part, by volunteers. We are grateful to Bay City Baptist of Green Bay, Wausau Bible Church, and several individual volunteers that have donated their time and skill set to specific projects on our campus over the course of this past year. Often volunteers come in and do things that we would have to hire out. They save us money and time. Often, the work is done better than what we would have received from hired help, because it is done with heart.
We have opportunities right now for general construction, accounting, computer networking, electrical, logging/land clearing, and vehicle maintenance. If you have a particular skill set and you would like God to use you here at Victory, please see our website for specific project details or give us a call!
There are also projects that don’t require a skilled hand. From raking leaves and moving wood to cleaning and organizing, there is always something to be done at Victory Family Ministries! Whether you want to personally come and handle a smaller task or you want to organize a work group to tackle a larger one, we always welcome your involvement. Contact our office for more information!
Perhaps you just don’t have time to devote to an on-site project, but still would like to help in some way. Capital improvements not only require a work force, but they also depend on the generous donations of God’s people. If you would like to partner with us by donating to a specific project, you can mail a check or donate online. Be sure to note the specific project on the memo line.
Thank you for being a part of God’s work in the lives of these boys and their families.
Director of Victory Family Ministries