Last month, we had 63 people gathered together in our Lodge to celebrate Thanksgiving. We ate too much, played hard on the football field, laughed at Charlie Brown’s excuse of a Christmas tree, and cheered on Josh B.’s grandma as she bench-pressed 45 lbs! Needless to say, there is much fun to be had when you cram that many people into one building.
Although we love the festivities, the focus quickly transitions on Friday morning. The two days after Thanksgiving are spent in general sessions and personal family counseling. What a blessing it is to be a part of what God is doing in the lives of each of these families! The dynamics of every parent gathering is different. Not only do you have personality differences, but you also have differing levels of commitment and buy-in. God was working in our midst this Thanksgiving, as we answered many great questions from the parents. The questions that these families were asking were coming from a thirst and hunger for Biblical answers. This fostered an environment of growth that motivated each family to be transparent in their needs. Each family desired to take the truths given in the sessions and work to implement them into their homes.
A truth that God impresses on my heart every time I counsel families is that I am a broken person. I may be a counselor, but that just means that I am a professionally broken person. These counseling sessions challenge Aaron and I to be the parents that we need to be. We have the same struggles; we are just in a different place of our journey as parents. We need these truths as much as the families with whom we work. Continue to pray for the young men, their families, and for us as we all seek to be conformed to the image of God’s Son.